The Art of Cozy – How to Hygge

The Little Book of Hygge

“Hygge has been called everything from ‘the art of creating intimacy,’ ‘coziness of the soul,’ and the ‘absence of annoyance,’ to ‘taking pleasure from the presence of soothing things,’ ‘cozy togetherness,’ and… ‘cocoa by candlelight’.”

By now, most everyone has heard of hygge (pronounced hoo-gah). It’s a Danish concept, one of those words that don’t fully translate into English. I was drawn to it because I was trying to simplify my life; the values and principles are very similar to my own, things I’ve been working on this past year.

The Little Book of Hygge is pretty hygge itself (yes, I’m aware it’s a noun – consider it a stylistic choice). The pages are filled with warm, muted, faded shades of orange and blue. It’s an easy, cozy read – something to curl up with at the end of the day, something positive that doesn’t require too much energy, something that embodies how to hygge.

How to Hygge

Hygge is mostly a lifestyle. It’s about all the little things, things that are often taken for granted, things that we don’t notice until they’re missing. We often get so caught up in the daily grind that we forget to stop and enjoy life. To stop and enjoy the very thing we’re working so hard to attain – a good life.

Hygge Manifesto

The Hygge Manifesto

The book goes over six aspects of hygge: light, togetherness, food & drink, clothing, home, outside.


Hygge is about warm lighting. Light is a huge component of creating coziness, a feeling of warmth and safety. Candles add a nice touch, but they’re not always the most convenient. We don’t always get a winter in LA, so lighting a fireplace after a brilliant, sweltering day doesn’t make sense. If candles and fireplaces aren’t for you (be it climate or environmental concerns), lamps and warmer light bulbs are key.


Hygge is about being together, the depth of relationships rather than the breadth. Especially in this day and age, it is easy to have thousands of “friends” on social media. But how many of them do we really know well? How many of them would we feel comfortable reaching out to for help? I’ve been working on getting to know people around me; in the past, I would withdraw into my little introvert shell and have a lot of superficial friendships. But life is so much richer and more meaningful when you share hopes, dreams, fears, and adventures with people. Try having small get-togethers instead of large parties; it will give you more time to get to know each individual person.

Food & Drink

Hygge is comfort food and warm drinks – pastries and soups and coffees and cocoas. How can we talk about coziness and deepening relationships without talking about food and drink? I can’t drink alcohol, but so many of my bonds with people have been strengthened over happy hour. Nothing binds people like sharing food (we can debate life-threatening situations another time). Think of grandmas cooking with their grandkids. Personally, I enjoy baking for people, but if cooking is not your forté, sharing a meal together at a restaurant will work just fine.


Hygge is about casual and comfortable. Warm layers like sweaters, scarves, and socks. But what is comfortable and casual to one might not be comfortable to another. I very much enjoy wearing a blazer with jeans; it’s not comfortable or casual by hygge standards but it’s comfortable to me. It gives me confidence to go out and do things I might normally not do.


Hygge is about creating comfortable spaces. Anything that invites and encourages someone to sit, touch, enjoy, and basically live in that space. A nook to hide in, nostalgic knickknacks, blanket forts.

How to Hygge at Home

How to Hygge at Home

I prefer clean, empty space (probably because I grew up with a lot of rather useless things), so my hygge living spaces will be confined to certain corners of rooms. I’m also not a big fan of rustic décor, so besides furniture, I don’t plan to use any wood elements.


Hygge is about nature. Taking a walk in the park, going hiking, spending a day at the beach. (This makes me want to go bike riding, which I really need to do regularly.) You can do it alone, or with someone to foster togetherness. And as you can see in the picture above, they bring nature into the home as well, for days when you can’t make it outside.


I like it. I love the idea of slowing down; some days I feel like I’m not ambitious enough for business school. And all these tips and ideas are very cost-effective; there’s no need to buy designer furniture or expensive clothing. In fact, doing so is the opposite of hygge.

I would definitely recommend reading The Little Book of Hygge. When you get overwhelmed or frustrated with work, it’s good to have a reminder of what’s important, that ultimately, everything is going to be okay, that life is made to be enjoyed.

“Hygge is about an atmosphere and an experience, rather than about things. It is about being with the people we love. A feeling of home. A feeling that we are safe, that we are shielded from the world and allow ourselves to let our guard down.”

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How do you hygge?

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Comments (13)

  • livingbreely 2 years ago Reply

    Loved reading this post! I’ve been interested in hygge for awhile but haven’t looked into. i’ll have to pick up a copy of this book!

    Beautiful pictures btw.

  • Nicole C L 2 years ago Reply

    I didn’t understand Hygge at all when I first heard about it. Lately, I’ve been hearing more people talk about their experiences with it and I’ve been seeing more and more books in stores about it. I’ve definitely have been trying to simplify my life lately and your post may have tipped the scales for me to try it.

    Lily 2 years ago Reply

    I’m glad you liked it! I love the idea of it being more about appreciating the daily, regular, little things in life, instead of big exciting adventures. It’s definitely helped me in simplifying my life 🙂

  • I love the idea of hygge! Scandinavia really knows how to do life!

    Lily 2 years ago Reply

    Hygge got me curious about Scandinavian lifestyle! I have more coming up in the next few weeks 🙂

  • Shannon 2 years ago Reply

    I’ve never heard of Hygge, but now I’m intrigued! I have to look for this book on my bookstore run this week.

  • karengiuliana 2 years ago Reply

    Thank you for sharing! I’ve heard about it briefly but this shows you a good idea of what it really is. Might have to invest in the book. Thanks for opening yourself to show what it really is.

  • jocelynnielson 2 years ago Reply

    I’ve never heard of this but now I want to read the book! Thanks for the recommendation!

    Lily 2 years ago Reply

    Thank you for stopping by! I hope you like the book, it’s definitely worth a read!

  • Anna 2 years ago Reply

    I love this little book! Great review.

  • Sophie 2 years ago Reply

    Beautiful post and very well written! You have no idea how many times I picked up this book at a book store, but did end up purchasing it. I still debate whether I should buy it or just borrow it from the library. I really like the concepts and they align greatly with my personal values. Thank you so much for the very informative post about the book! 🙂

    Lily 2 years ago Reply

    I always borrow the book from the library first; I read way too much and if I bought every book I wouldn’t have space to turn around! This way, I only buy the books that resonate strongly with me :). Thank you for reading!

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